Friday, March 30, 2007

Case of the Ex

I called my mom today to update her on the job hunting and she goes "OH! Guess who called today asking about you?" Sometimes I hate when people say "Guess who....such and such" because I don't know WHO it could be. JUST TELL ME! I usually end up being wrong so what was the whole point me guessing. Anyway, of course, I say "Ummmm I don't know...who?" She responds with "EX" (we shall keep him nameless because he's not someone I would ever blog about again.)

Mom said he called just to see how she was doing and to ask about me. He asked if I was still dating Boyfriend and if I was ever in town to call him and we could "talk." Ummmm NO THANKS! Of course, Mom told him I was doing great and that, yes, I still was with Boyfriend.

What really bugs me is that Mom told me he calls her frequently just to say hi and see how things are. Why does he feel the need to do that?! We're no longer together (btw, which was all his fault) and so he no longer has ties to my family. I don't go calling his mother. We've been broken up for a long time now. Mom thinks he is still in love with me and that he is just so lonely. Not my problem! He should of thought about that when he was (supposedly) cheating on me and being an absolute drunk. He pushed me away....he became the jerk.

I mean is it just me or would that not bother you? I have not talked to him since the breakup and I almost want to call him up to tell him to stop contacting my mother, father, aunt, sister, and grandmother. (I'm not even joking...he really does contact all those people.)

Am I wrong?

6 comments:

Wanderlusting said...

That would piss me off.

I hate Exes like that, I had a few.

It's like, you know what, we aren't together, get over it. Especially when they did it, you know?

What's worse is when your mother keeps asking about certain exes. Granted, she does hate most of mine and deservedly, but there is one she sometimes asks about.

I just wanna say, I don't know what he is up to and as nice as a guy he was, I don't care.

Too bad your mom cant just tell your ex off...

Nachi said...

I know! My mom still loves him! I have to remind her that I've moved on and it's not going to happen. I guess because he gives her the sob story, she feels bad for him.

Anonymous said...

you arent wrong that totally weird and if i was you i actually would call him and tell him to stop i mean what is he gonna continue this forever??!!

jo said...

if it were me, i'd be weirded out too. though i guess if you were with him for a long time and he was practically at every family event, that kinda scenario where he still maintains contact with your family might exist. but still weird.

m said...

There's a word for guys like that: STALKER.

Anonymous said...

Booo we need an update!!